• THE A.R.T.

    OF

    SPIRITUAL

    LIVING

    3 Keys to Honoring Your Sacred Transitions

    🌸 A.waken
    Awaken to the deeper awareness of how your past has shaped your thoughts, patterns, and beliefs—not only in how you live, but also in how you approach death as a sacred transition. With compassion, you’ll recognize the soul lessons woven through your story, allowing you to heal and move forward with clarity and peace.

    🌸 R.elease
    Release the limiting stories that have kept you from trusting your intuition and from fully embracing life’s thresholds—including the tender passages of loss, grief, and letting go. As you soften into surrender, you’ll open the door to a new, empowered narrative that celebrates your spiritual potential and honors death as a sacred teacher.

    🌸 T.ransform
    Transform your relationship with Spirit and with Life itself. By trusting your inner guidance and embracing your intuitive gifts, you’ll learn to live—and die—with greater love, presence, and purpose. This is the heart of spiritual living: knowing that every breath, every ending, and every beginning is part of your soul’s sacred journey.

    The A.R.T. of Spiritual Living

    • Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by grief, or disconnected from your heart’s true desires?
    • Maybe you’re navigating the loss of a loved one, a relationship, or a job—and the uncertainty leaves you anxious and unsure.
    • Perhaps you know you are a spiritual being living a human experience, yet you long to trust your spirituality and fully embrace your gifts.

    You are not alone. The A.R.T. of Spiritual Living is here to gently guide you through these sacred thresholds of life, death, and everything in between.

    In this transformative program, you will:

    • Heal unresolved grief and emotional wounds that block your spiritual growth.
    • Reconnect with your true self and uncover your heart’s deepest desires.
    • Trust your intuitive gifts and quiet the inner critic that keeps you stuck.
    • Embrace spiritual practices that align with your highest purpose—so you feel more confident, peaceful, and soul-led in life and business.
    • Learn how Sacred Deathcare teachings can help you approach endings and transitions—with presence, compassion, and love.

    🌸 If your soul is ready to rise, to live and love more fully—with no regrets—this is your invitation.


    Let’s walk this sacred path together.

  • This program is for you if…

    🌸 You are a spiritual seeker, intuitive, healer, coach, or soulful entrepreneur who is ready to feel confident and clear in mastering your energy and alignment—both in your personal life and in your sacred work.

    🌸 In this journey, you’ll not only grow your spiritual gifts, but also learn how to honor life’s sacred thresholds.

    🌸Through the lens of Sacred Deathcare and Spiritual Living, you’ll discover how to bring compassion, presence, and deeper meaning to every transition—whether in your own life or in the lives of those you serve.

    This is about living and loving fully, sharing your gifts with the world, and embracing your unique “woo” with confidence.

    If you're ready to grow your spiritual gifts, let's get on a call together.

  • Lisa is trusting her intuition, confidently visible, and is growing her business!

  • Jamel has gained more confidence in growing her yoga therapy business!

    My life is better as a result of working with Bessie. I feel lighter and practice more compassion for myself. It has moved me to begin developing different plans and goals for my business. 

     

    Jamel S. ~ Oahu, HI

    Jen has gained trust in herself and her purpose.

    The top three results I got out of working with Bessie was a greater sense of purpose, validation, clarification and trust in myself and my purpose. I feel a greater sense of needing to keep working and not give up. I feel less attached to the outcome and more attached to the why!! 

     

    ~ Jen Nichol, Oahu, HI

  • Sherrie has gained more confidence in teaching Reiki and selling her art!

     

    Through past life regression Bessie was able to help me overcome the fear, face it and move on to the here and now while letting go of the need to run away. She made me realize I’m in a loving, safe environment now and that it’s time to reach out and help others. Thank you Bessie. I’d still be wandering around in the dark without your help!!"

     

    Sherrie S. ~ Navarre, FL

    SND gained clarity knowing that her past is not who she energetically is!

     

    I made many life changes to do things that make me happy. My relationships with my family and friends are much more open and have improved. I feel like a weight has been taken off my chest and I can move on with my life by closing the old chapter of the old me."

     

    ~ SND, Honoluu, HI

  • I know what it feels like to hold back—afraid of being judged, overthinking, and not fully showing up as my true self.

    For years, fear kept me stuck.

    I was also deeply afraid of death. But walking with both of my parents through their sacred transitions became my greatest initiation.

    They taught me to:


    👉 See our bodies as sacred vehicles for living our soul’s purpose


    👉 Embrace death with courage, and in turn live more fully and consciously


    👉 Be in right relationship with death, myself and my loved ones

    👉 Because of them, I no longer run from fear—I live with presence, love, and no regrets.

    Now I want to walk beside you, as you learn to trust yourself, embrace your intuitive gifts, and step into the power of your authentic self.

  • Are you ready to trust your intuition and share your beautiful gifts with the world?

  • The A.R.T. of Spiritual Living -

    Embracing Your Sacred Transitions

    A 1:1 high touch, 3 month, deeper coaching experience for spiritual light leaders, light workers and seekers ready to confidently step into their power - while honoring life and death as sacred teachers.

    In this transformative journey, you will:

    🌸 Trust Your Intuition — Learn to confidently follow your inner guidance and co-create your life, relationships, and business in partnership with Spirit and your spiritual team.
    🌸 Be Fully Supported — Enter a safe, sacred space to share your deepest feelings, grief, or fears of change—free from judgment.
    🌸 Transform Limiting Stories — Release old narratives that keep you stuck in fear of endings or transitions, and replace them with empowered truths that help you live—and die—with no regrets.
    🌸 Experience Spiritual Hypnotherapy — Receive powerful sessions to transmute outdated thought patterns, heal unresolved grief, and align with your soul’s deeper truth.
    🌸 Work with the Chakras — Understand and realign your energy centers to bring balance, courage, and compassion to both life and death transitions.
    🌸 Ascend to Your Next Level — Step into greater abundance and presence, while learning to embrace death as a sacred threshold that teaches you how to live more consciously now.
    🌸 Receive Personalized Support — Coaching is tailored to your unique path, ensuring you receive the guidance your soul is calling for—whether you are navigating a life change, loss, or spiritual awakening.

    Your soul already knows the way. Now is the time to follow it with courage, clarity and love. Let's begin your journey of spiritual living and sacred transformation together.

  • C.W. has gained more confidence bringing in more clients her business!

    I understand how being mindful of my thoughts are important and how my energy needs to be clear to trust myself.

    I was able to truly appreciate my gifts, talents and abilities and showcase them in my own authentic way. 

    I highly recommend this program. If you come into this with an open mind, your mind will open up in surprising ways. Analytics, creatives and artists will find a common ground taking this program."

     

    C.W. ~ San Jose, CA

    Linda learned how to focus on possibility thinking vs. being attached to her past.

    I realized that I had stories from past my that have shaped me and now I'm learning and allowing to release these stories.

     

    I'm feeling more confident and motivated in starting my business!

     

    I enjoyed the experiential work, the mystical, going back to past lives. I realized that healing was key on a cellular level so that your future generations are healed. Bessie taught different techniques that are lifelong tools to help me on my path.

     

    Linda M. ~ Oahu, Hawaii

  • Sherrie is growing her business and serving more clients!

  • This is where you will learn to:

    ✔ Trust your innate wisdom

    ✔ Partner with Spirit and learn to walk in both the 3D & 5D world  

    ✔ Know you are ENOUGH/AMAZING/PERFECT at your soul's core  

    ✔ Experience abundance in all areas of your business and life  

    ✔ Focus and taking inspired action

     

  • 🌹 Hello - I am Bessie Estonactoc. I am a former Licensed Therapist turned Certified Spiritual Coach & Guide. With over 20+ years experience in therapy, I bring a deep understanding of both the therapeutic and spiritual realms.

    As a Native San Franciscan, I had the privilege and opportunity to live in Hawaii for 24 years. Deeply rooted in the spirit of Aloha, I specialize in empowering spiritual women and men, coaches and healers to confidently align with their soul to achieve the spiritual transformations they crave.

    On my 70th birthday in 2022, I was honored with the Hawaiian name Kahu Kalama O Ke Anuenue (The Torch of the Rainbow Colored Light), which I embrace as Kalama Bessie, symbolizing my role in guiding spiritual women and men towards self-love and empowerment.

    I live on the beautiful Central Coast of California and work with clients world-wide. 🌹