• Hello! I’m Bessie Estonactoc.

    I am so glad you're here!

  • 🌸 My Philosophy

    As a Spiritual Coach, Hypnotherapist, and Sacred Deathcare Guide, I believe we are infinite, multidimensional beings on an ever-evolving soul journey that transcends lifetimes.

    Many of my clients feel the nudge of their intuition but struggle to trust it. They sense there’s more to life—more wisdom, purpose, and connection—but don’t always know how to access it from within. That’s where our work begins.

    I help spiritual seekers remember that every experience—joyful or painful—is a sacred invitation for awakening. The patterns, challenges, and energy blocks showing up now aren’t random; they’re soul invitations for deeper healing and transformation.

    What makes my work unique is the integration of spiritual hypnotherapy, intuitive channeling, and Sacred Deathcare guidance. Together, these modalities bridge psychology, spirituality, and soul remembrance—bringing healing to both life’s transitions and its ultimate threshold: death.

    🌿 Sacred Deathcare Guidance

    Honoring the sacred threshold of life and death.

    As a Sacred Deathcare Guide, I companion individuals and families through the tender passages of dying, grief, and letting go.

    My practicum in hospice during my Masters program, along with helping my father and mother through their end of life phase has especially inspired me to help others during their transitions.


    This work is rooted in love, reverence, and the belief that death is not an end, but a sacred transition.

    Through ritual, reflection, and presence, I help clients find peace, meaning, and connection—so that both the dying and the living can embrace this passage with compassion and no regrets.

    🌙 Spiritual Hypnotherapy & Regression

    Healing the subconscious and remembering the soul.

    Through hypnotherapy and past life regression, we journey into the deeper layers of the subconscious to release old patterns, fears, and ancestral imprints. This process reveals the soul’s wisdom—allowing profound healing, clarity, and self-compassion to emerge. Clients often describe it as “coming home” to themselves.

    Channeling & Intuitive Guidance

    Listening to Spirit’s whispers and reclaiming your divine essence.

    My channeling work offers a sacred space to connect with your higher self, guides, angels, and ancestors. Whether you’re facing a new beginning, moving through loss, or seeking clarity on your path, these sessions open the door to guidance, peace, and remembrance of who you truly are—a radiant, eternal being of light.

    🌿🌙 ✨ If this work speaks to your heart, I invite you to schedule a Connection Call.


    This is a sacred space where we can connect soul to soul—exploring where you are on your journey, what transitions or healing you may be navigating, and how I might best support you.

    Together, we’ll listen for the whispers of your soul, uncover what’s ready to be released, and illuminate the path toward deeper peace, purpose, and spiritual alignment.

    Whether you are being called to heal, to grow, or to make peace with a sacred ending, know that you are not alone.


    Your soul already knows the way home—I simply help you remember.

  • Lisa came to me because she was feeling stress at her job, in her relationships, and was feeling confused and disconnected with herself.

      Aspects of our work together included learning tools to manage her everyday stress, trusting her intuition in making decisions about her work and healing from her relationships to know that she deserved to have and be in a loving relationship.

     

    Lisa was able to feel more centered, more confident, creative, and more herself.

     

    A few months after our work together, Lisa found love and was able to marry the man of her dreams, Kirk!

     

    She is also thriving at a job that she absolutely loves, where she can travel and work from anywhere.

  • Everything changes when you learn to trust your intuition.

    Lisa found me on social media, and her intuitive nudges telling her to reach out to me were strong. When she and I connected, Lisa had recently uprooted to a different state and was feeling stuck in a job that didn't resonate with her. She was feeling lost and out of sorts.

     

    Through our work together, Lisa was able to:

    A.cknowledge her feelings

    R.elease the old, fear stories holding her back and

    T.ransfom her life to connect with her true soul-essence self.

     

    Our work helped her let go of the stressful job that didn’t serve her, and now she’s happy and grounded in her home. She learned to trust her intuitive gifts so deeply, that she’s now a Reiki Master Teacher and Intuitive Artist!

  • Linda realized what was holding herself back in expanding her Reiki business.

    "I am reflecting on an incredible hypotherapy session that I had with Bessie. I was wondering what was holding me back from expanding myself into entering the reiki business realm.

    Bessie is a highly qualified and skilled former therapist and, now, hypnotherapist and coach. She took me a step further with different in-depth hypnotherapy techniques. It was so smooth and calming to delve down deep into my subconscious mind to find the stories I tell myself.

    It is a gentle process that is soothing, with self-exploration and affirmations of support. I was able to recognize my blockages into the present and have insights to take steps forward to my goals in life to help others.

    I highly recommend Bessie to enrich and to live your best life. She is very compassionate and intuitive."

  • ABOUT ME

    I am a former Licensed Therapist turned Certified Spiritual Coach + Hypnotherapist + Sacred Deathcare Guide. With over 30+ years of combined experience in therapy, counseling, coaching and spirituality, I bring a deep understanding of both the therapeutic and spiritual realms.

    As a Native San Franciscan, I had the privilege and opportunity to live in Hawaii for 24 years. Deeply rooted in the spirit of Aloha, I specialize in empowering spiritual seekers, coaches and healers to confidently align with their soul to achieve the spiritual transformations they crave.

    On my 70th birthday, I was honored with the Hawaiian name Kahu Kalama O Ke Anuenue (The Torch of the Rainbow Colored Light), which I embrace as Kalama Bessie, symbolizing my role in guiding spiritual seekers towards self-love and empowerment.

  • Some personal tidbits about me:

    I'm a native San Franciscan and live on the Central Coast of California. Having spent 24 years living on the island of Oahu, I consider the beautiful and magical island my second home.

    I’ve been married to my loving husband, Jack, for 43 years and am so grateful that he has supported me in nurturing my soul purpose!

    I enjoy traveling, walking on the beach, spending time with our grandchildren and discovering new restaurants with my husband.

    I am passionate about reading and collecting books on the chakras, spirituality, healing, law of attraction, and vibrational healing. I almost have enough reading in my library to last me a lifetime!!!

    My collecting of crystals are reaching their all time high, too!

    I have two awesome adult children, a fantastic son in law and daughter in law, AND six beautiful grandchildren, whom I love to the moon and beyond!!

  • I'm professionally certified:

    * MindValley Hypnotherapy with Paul McKenna

    * Sacred Deathcare Guide

    * Advanced Spiritual Hypnotherapy

    * Past Life Regression

    * Advanced Heart Centered Hypnotherapy

    * 200 Hour Certified Yoga Teacher

    * Certified Personal Transformation & Life Coach

    * Certified Spiritual Coach

    * Certified Usui/Holy Fire® Levels I, II & Reiki Master Teacher

    * Certified Holy Fire® III Karuna Reiki Master Teacher

  • Let's chat! Schedule a complimentary Connection Call to see how I can support you!